Monday, 28 January 2013

Age of Composition: Is Writing An Arduous Task?



Graham Greene, a well-known English writer as well as a literary critic once mentioned, “Writing is a form of therapy; sometimes I wonder how all those who do not write or compose can manage to escape the madness, melancholia, the panic and fear which is inherent in a human situation”. “You will have a story in there, or a character, a place, a poem, a moment in time. When you find it, you will write it. Word after word after word after word,” said Patricia MacLachlan, one of the bestselling American children’s authors. Both Greene and MacLachlan share a similarity in their quote that is – writing seems to be an enjoyable spiritual or holy soul journey which allows us to be expressive by shaping and organizing our vague thoughts and abstract feelings into concrete evidence of words.  

Especially for societies today, the rise of globalization flow and online media has helped to raise a new generation who write far more, and in more-diverse forms, than the predecessors did. As Grabill from Michigan State University Writing in Digital Environments Research Center explained, “In order to interact on the Web, you have to write.” By simply browsing through the most widely used social networking sites – Facebook, we are depicted with infinity number of posts, messages, comments and statuses to describe ones’ current locations, emotions, states, thinking and actions. It is witnessed that technologies are driving people to compose whatever they wish to convey with written words instead of speech to express their thoughts, feelings and even doings and Yancey, an English professor from Florida State University named the current period as “Age of Composition”, whereby writing and composing plays an extensive important role in ones’ lives.

However, according to surveys conducted in various universities throughout the nation, it is surprised to discover that many students find writing a difficult, boring and tiring job to be done. The question aroused is why people writing every day complain writing as an arduous task for them. Isn’t writing a pleasurable therapy or simply a flow of ideas and thoughts that one can write “word after word after word” as mentioned by Greene and MacLachlan? A study conducted by the Pew Internet and American Life Project in 2008 found that sixty percent of teenagers today did not consider text messaging and other forms of electronic communication to be real writing. This study highlighted one of the most significant reasons – that is people’s preconceived notions of associating writing with formal academic purposes only, which most of them are inferior and less competent in.

Definitely, writing does not happen only in classroom or workplace settings, but acts as a variegated social communication tool as well nowadays. However, from the perspective of academic writing, it might be considered onerous with the negotiation of whether e-communication enhances or contributes to the decay of critical and creative writing skills arises. A study conducted in Britain's Coventry University found that texting does not adversely affect students’ linguistic abilities but help to develop their word and vocabulary recognition. Yet, Humphrey argued in article published by The Daily Mail in 2007 stating that text messaging does deteriorate English Language by “pillaging our punctuation, savaging our sentences, raping our vocabulary” and allowing informal language such as emoticons and internet abbreviations such as “LOL” to slip into the in-class writing. For instances, have you ever come across a situation whereby you want to type a “you” in a formal letter but unconsciously, you represented it with an abbreviation  “u” until your friends notify you about it. This shows how great is the impact of e-communication as a threat to formal writing for academic purposes, for it will instinctually shape a habit of ignoring the syntactical and grammatical rule as what e-communication always does.

In addition to that, students always complain about the lack of idea and difficulty of organising their ideas into written words when come to academic writing. Research has proven that internet has indeed ‘rewired’ the way our brains retain and retrieve information. Try reflecting how long will you spend on a single page when you are browsing through the Web normally? The internet offers so many gateways to infinity number of pages, that it has made it difficult for us to focus on one piece of information at a time. Such convenience provided by the Web is very destructive to writing skills at the same time, for it causes people to be less focus or mindful to their inner thoughts and ideas but continue indulging in the momentum of finding information through browsing others’ opinions on the internet. Hence, people often find it difficult to structure their thoughts into written piece, concluding that writing is an arduous task.          

Supported by those downside factors highlighted above, I would suppose that writing for academic purposes is an arduous task challenged by e-communication but this obstacle can be overcome if one put in hard effort into learning the formal manner of composing despite the informal writing style for socialization through internet. Although students nowadays are more interested and impassioned about the writing they pursue out of class, class time is essential to draw distinctions between different types of writing, so that both formal and informal writing can be acquired in the learning process for different purposes. However, writing itself is absolutely not an arduous task as one just has to stop worrying about whether their writing makes sense or not and let their ideas, feelings and imagination flow to the tip of the pen. An expression from the bottom of the heart will certainly create a splendid, magnificent and heart shaking piece of written work.
  
    

Thursday, 17 January 2013

De Facto Marriage: Trend of Generation-Y before Marriage Dissolution



The traditional concept of marriage is in a chronic state of decay. According to the survey report published by Greenberg Quinlan Rosner Research (2006), which looked into the issue of family and marriage’s perception of Generation-Y – those who born in era of globalization between 1980 and 2000, less than half of the surveyed population perceived marriage as one of the most important institutions in life. Instead, fifty-nine percent of them viewed cohabitation as a legitimate process or stage, known as De Facto marriage, in an intimate relationship. There go the days with conservative sequence of courtship rituals in which a man and a woman will go out for a few dates followed by more frequent dates that gradually build the base of the two into an exclusive relationship, which eventually ends them up in a formal engagement followed by marriage dissolutions. Modern dating has a new step now that comes before engagement as an essential way to test-drive the relationship, that is shacking up under the same roof or in simple words – living together.


According to McManus (2010), Census Bureau recently reported that 7.5 million couples were cohabitating, which shows a great leap with seventeen-fold increase from 430,000 in 1960. This prominent statistic has drawn us into concern about the roots of the issue. One of the main reasons that drive cohabitation trend among Y-generation is the traits associated with these echo boomers nowadays – that is open-mindedness, bewilderness, flexibility and authority-challenge like behaviours (Yuphaphann Hoonchamlong, 2006), which eventually alter their concept of marriage. Quoted from a survey done by University of Hawaii cited by Tinus (2013), Y-generation seems to be more culturally tolerant than the past generations and more open to new ideas and alternate lifestyles. They are not afraid to speak their mind and challenge the norm with emphasis on self-fulfilment and individual happiness (Yuphaphann Hoonchamlong, 2006; Tinus, 2013). Such attitudes and characteristics are believed to play a crucial role in causing a shift of marital concept in them from “Till death us do part” to “as long as I am happy” which then lead them into cohabitation (Institute for American Values, 1995).

With this marital concept as the roots, people tend to act according to their instincts or feelings to ensure happiness by opposing the custom of courtship ritual. For instances, many have given the similar statement that they live together simply because they are deep in love with each other for the present moment and cohabitate is a witnessed evidence of how they treasure and maintain the relationship as future cannot be predicted. The present joyfulness is what concerned them more and they seem to take advantage of cohabitation as a non-legal institution which still retains their “single” status even if the couple find them not suitable after the living together. With that, all sorts of reasons, or might as well be known as excuses, appear to support cohabitation such as saving money for dating, determining the compatibility of the partnership, getting use to daily life habit of partners and so on (Alternatives to Marriage Project, 2013). In support of that, an interview with Generation-Y cohabiters (Yuphaphann Hoonchamlong, 2006) also stated that most of them choose to engage in cohabitation due to uncertainties of whether their partner or they themselves are able to show consistent commitment in the relationship, which eventually leads them into this “test-drive” before marriage. From such reasons provided by the Y-generation cohabiters, the tendency of running away from responsibility of lifetime commitment to marriage is not hard to be identified, which is the main cause explaining why most studies term cohabitation as bad for not only it is against the custom, but leads to premarital divorce most of the time.  
     
In short, the concept towards relationship and marriages of Generation-Y are clearly being redefined to make space for alternatives and whatever direction that they are heading to in the society, this new trend of cohabitation performed by them is getting into an uncharted territory with many pros and cons being negotiated as the same time. Quoted from the saying of a famous writer named Milan Kundera, “When the heart speaks, the mind finds it indecent to object”. It is understandable of the boldness of love concept displayed by the Generation-Y today with cohabitation as a practical way for them to express sincere love to the other half as well as making absolute certitude that the one that touches or moves their heart will guide them towards a happily-ever-after relationship but not divorce in the end. However, the public doubt on maturity and rationality of the young cohabiters of whether they treat cohabitation as a “marriage of convenience” or a trial “marriage of commitment” remains a navigable myth.  
                           
                                                                               References

Alternatives to Marriage Project. (2013). Cohabitation F.A.Q.. Retrieved from http://www.unmarried.org/cohabitation-f.a.q.html

Greenberg Quinlan Rosner Research. (2005, September). Gen-Y on marriage: Triumph of hope over experience. Coming of Age in America: Part 2. Retrieved from http://gqrr.com/articles/1010/2618_COA20905.pdf

McManus. (2010, October 26). Divorce, cohabitation cost Maryland millions and should be part of the gubernatorial debate. Retrieved from http://articles.baltimoresun.com

Institute for American Values. (1995). Marriage in America: A report to the nation. Retrieved from http://www.americanvalues.org/html/r-marriage_in_america.html

Tinus, D. (2013). Characteristics & traits of generation-y. Retrieved from http://www.ehow.com/info_8469348_characteristics-traits-generation-y.html  

Yuphaphann Hoonchamlong. (2006, May). Reaching Generation Y: Integrating pop culture and technology in language instruction. Paper presented at the 1st World Congress on the Power of Language, Bangkok, Thailand. Abstract retrieved from http://www.yhoonchamlong.net/e-present/pop-tech-thai-2006.pdf

   

Thursday, 10 January 2013

Regards and Farewell from The Guardian (OPEN IMMEDIATELY)


Sweetheart,

       Take it easy, my dear and thanks for clicking the "Wait, it's safe" button to move this mail from the junk site to your inbox. Congratulations, the moment you opens it up has created a third-dimensional communication bridge between your future self, that is me who is sending this mail, and the present existential you as well as the past me! Despite your laptop frequent suffering from virus attack due to your carelessness in downloading unnecessary software or opening of junk mail, once again, I salute your courage and naivety which make my intention to interact with you a success.

       It is one of a million possibilities for this miracle to take place with many guardians from the future have tried to use their one and only chance to communicate with their past self but ends up in failure most of the time. Many people simply treated such mail as a prank. However, I am confident that you will get to read my message and hereby, I am telling you that this is not a prank mail but a message from your guardian - the future you. Why am I so confident about it? Well, simply because I had existed as the past me - that is present you before and understand how naive you are of believing in guardians and miracles, despite the strong and wise image that you always put up in front of people.

       I guess you have lots of "W-H" questions puzzling in your head now about me and the mail. Don't worry, what you have in mind can be sensed by me and I shall answer them in the following part of the mail for the next five minutes. Let go of your fear but retain the curiosity and continue reading with a relaxed soul.

       So, you asked me what I meant by I am your future self as well as guardian? Well, sweety, just like how you believe that there is always a genie or guardian watching over and support you in needy, I am the one that always there by your side to provide you with the hint of life and monitor your growth secretly without you knowing.

       When and where do I come from? Well, as I have mentioned earlier, I came from the future perspective of time and exactly when I am not sure too. Where? You just have to know that I am always beside you and might appear in whatever form to hint you when you need me.

       You are wondering why I want to communicate in such a way through words instead of continuing through hint which you will never know about my existence? You might be overwhelming over confirming my presence now as your guardian angel but I am sorry to let you know that this is the first and last time for me to say "Hello" to as well as to bid "Goodbye" with you, for after 20 years of careful monitor and observation since you are born, I am now very sure that you have found your way of life and have determined what you want and what you should do as well as how you want it to be, especially after browsing through the ten resolutions stated in your blog.
     
       Though some of the statements are quite vague and abstract, I understand that you have already got your big plans to carry out and realize them in actions which I might never know even if I am your future self - as a person of different time range and dimension appears to have different pathways and endings in that particular lifetime depends on how he or she makes decision to choose how it wants to be. Hence, I guess it is the time for me to end my guardianship with you, for you already possess the vision, ability and toughness to face whatever it comes later in your life.You know what you want and I should not disturb the flow by giving you anymore hints or advices.  

       This e-mail is sent just in hope that you will gain motivation from, be firm with your beliefs regardless of the sarcastic tease from others and persevere until the last breathe of your life in run of your goals and final destination of this lifetime. You might treat it as a unbelievable dream later but just stay determined with your happy*lucky virtue and I believe you will find your destiny like me sooner or later. Lastly, I want to say that parting is not an ending but a refreshed beginning like 2013 and my spirit will always be with you to support you from the inner soul of heart.

With love and happy*luckiness,
Ying Xi ^^

                         

Fortitude & Resolution after the Doomsday

     
       The Mayan doomsday have passed without incident. Though many archaeologists claimed that it has been rescheduled, being one who dodged and was not bound by the doomsday paranoia, I shall be thankful for whether the end of the world will come true to be witnessed or not in future, for I am satisfied and appreciated everything that I had came across in my life for the past twenty years. Quoted from an Indonesian author, " When you are at peace, you embrace the eternity. When you are confused, you be dazzled by doomsday". That was exactly how I feel after surviving through the apocalypse.

   
        Doomsday prophecy is constantly on the count since the early 19th century but what I believe is - there is no doomsday scheme made specifically for mankind but miracles and many possibilities for human beings who are continuously undergoing evolution and progression towards a better living with evident actions and goals.

      With a sense of gratitude, here are the top ten things I wish to achieve or fulfill in welcoming a refreshed year of 2013.




Firstly, learn to love myself more and accept the different sides of me instead of indulging in denial and rationalization.









Secondly, establish and strengthen quality circle of friends, regardless of the quantity.











Thirdly, boost up the courage to interact and communicate with people of different backgrounds, for anyone that passes by my life is a fate destined by God to assist my growth.






Fourth, to enhance my sense of gratitude and widen the heart capacity with generosity which contributes to mental toughness. Expose myself to those extra blessed one through community service.
- get to gain weight and donate blood
- acquire sign language







Fifth, to spend more time with family members and become a more considerate daughter as well as sister.


 
          






Sixth, learn to study smart besides hard with good taking care of my health condition especially sleep quality and daily diet.  





Seventh, persist the determination and perseverance to achieve the sixth resolutions stated above and stay positive and happy*lucky everyday. 



The last three resolutions are concerned with studies' goals for all academic subjects besides expository writing class.

Eighth, train up critical thinking skills while acquiring new knowledge besides scoring well in the exam.

Ninth, improve creativity in assignments and writings.

Tenth, take extra effort to acquire knowledge outside the classroom which enhance studies such as reading journal, flipping through newspapers and attending beneficial workshop or conference.  

       Whatever target will only stay as an abstract and unrealistic target in the absence of the willingness to accept change and effort for transition. Hence, I hope that I will gain the courage to be ready for every occurrence in a brand new year and with the ten resolutions stated above, I welcome every challenge that I am going to face in year 2013!

Happy*lucky ^^